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How My Father Started Sleeping With Me From Age 8- Aziza Kibibi

 

Aziza Kibibi was only eight-years-old when her father – an MTV award-winning music video director – started defiling her. By 10, Aswad Ayinde’s lessons teaching his daughter ‘how to be a woman’ turned violent and his regular defiling produced five children out of incest in a perverse attempt to create a ‘pure’ bloodline.

Ayinde, who is also known as Charles McGill and won fame after directing The Fugees’ ‘Killing Me Softly’ video, was sentenced to 50 years in prison on July 26, finally ending Kibibi’s nightmare.

The incredibly brave woman, who is now 35, married and running a promising baking business, spoke out about the traumatic childhood this week for the first time.

Kibibi revealed her childhood started off relatively normal. She lived with her mother and father on the third-floor of an apartment in Paterson, New Jersey, with her Jamaican immigrant grandparents living below.

Kibibi was home-schooled but still allowed to play with the neighbourhood children. When her family grew to include eight children they moved into a bigger apartment in the same building.

It was when Kibibi started to mature that her father started giving her unwanted attention.

‘He told me I was special. Initially, it was to teach me to be a woman,’ she said. ‘By the time he started having intercourse with me, he was getting more and more violent. When I would start fighting him, he would hit me. It was more about threats.’

Her father began to change, and became more controlling over the family. He moved them out of their grandparent’s apartment to another house in Paterson before relocating to Eatontown in Southern New Jersey.

The children were only allowed to watch a small amount of TV, and nothing that depicted traditional family life.

Modern medicine was outlawed in the house, and he actually told his wife that his relations with Kibibi were to treat her eczema.

Kibibi wasn’t the only one Ayinde was having sex with. He had a mistress – a Manhattan lawyer whom he had another two children with – and was also abusing one of Kibibi’s sisters.

He called himself a polygamist and a prophet. His family was allowed to pray to god but could only do so through him.

‘He said the world was going to end, and it was just going to be him and his offspring and that he was chosen,’ his ex-wife, Beverly Ayinde testified at a 2010 pre-trial hearing. She said he was attempting to create a ‘pure’ bloodline by procreating with his daughters.

When Kibibi’s first child was born without defects, Ayinde took it as proof and continued to r*pe the girl to get her pregnant.

But the following children would not be so lucky. Two further daughters born from her father would be diagnosed with phenylketonuria (PKU) a disease that prevents the body from breaking down amino acids. PKU can cause brain damage and seizures.

Dr. Anna Haroutunian, a PKU specialist who has treated Kibibi’s children, said they definitely got the disease because of inbreeding.

PKU is a recessive gene, so both parents must have the gene in order for it to pass along to the child. The gene only appears at a rate of 1 in 4,000 worldwide and is must lower for African-Americans. Likely Kibibi’s paternal grandfather had the gene.

Over the years, Kibibi became obsessed with escaping. She would sleep just because her dreams were better than real life.

‘I’d dream about running away. I’d dream about getting all my brothers and sisters — one of my sisters was a baby, and I was taking care of her — I’d dream about growing br**sts and getting milk and running away with them somewhere,’ she said.

When she was older and one of her sons fell sick, she finally got the courage to take him to the hospital since Ayinde was out of town on a business trip.

But she didn’t know how to interact with the doctors and a social worker stepped in, alerting the Department of Youth a Family Services.

When Ayinde returned from his business trip he was enraged, and threatened to forcibly remove his son from the hospital.

Child services stepped in before he could do that and placed them in separate homes.

After that Kibibi, her mother and her sisters moved away from Ayinde as she attempted to get her children back.

Her performance in state-mandated courses and counselling impressed the government officials and eventually her children were returned to her.

‘She has been an exceptional mother,’ Haroutunian said. ‘She was so attentive and patient, it’s remarkable. For a young girl – with all she’s had – she has been just wonderful.’

Having to fight to get her children back also empowered Kibibi, and translated to her life after abuse. She now lives in East Orange, New Jersey with her husband.

She went back to school for her GED and will finish her liberal arts degree from Essex County College this fall. She also runs her own baking business and plans to start a restaurant someday.

Kibibi and her sister decided to finally bring charges against their abusive father. They delayed pressing charges since they were unsure the affect it would have on the children.

She shared her story in hopes of making a difference with those in a similar situation.

‘Instead of just being an experience that I had, maybe this strengthened me. What doesn’t break us makes us stronger.’

 

 

Woman marries herself when she is 40 years old

40 years old Yasmin-Elebi has uphold her promise to marry herself if she is still unable to secure an husband at the age of 40, she got married to herself on the 3rd of January 2015

40 year old Yasmin Eleby recently decided to, in the proverbial sense, take the bull by the horn by getting married to herself in a lovely candlelight ceremony which happened at the Huston Museum of African American Culture (HMAAC), on Saturday, Janauary 3, 2015. Present at the unusual ceremony were family and friends of the bride/groom who were there to give support to Yasmin as she exchanged vows with no one else but herself.

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

40 year old Yasmin Eleby recently decided to, in the proverbial sense, take the bull by the horn by getting married to herself in a lovely candlelight ceremony which happened at the Huston Museum of African American Culture (HMAAC), on Saturday, Janauary 3, 2015. Present at the unusual ceremony were family and friends of the bride/groom who were there to give support to Yasmin as she exchanged vows with no one else but herself.

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

40 year old Yasmin Eleby recently decided to, in the proverbial sense, take the bull by the horn by getting married to herself in a lovely candlelight ceremony which happened at the Huston Museum of African American Culture (HMAAC), on Saturday, Janauary 3, 2015. Present at the unusual ceremony were family and friends of the bride/groom who were there to give support to Yasmin as she exchanged vows with no one else but herself.

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

40 year old Yasmin Eleby recently decided to, in the proverbial sense, take the bull by the horn by getting married to herself in a lovely candlelight ceremony which happened at the Huston Museum of African American Culture (HMAAC), on Saturday, Janauary 3, 2015. Present at the unusual ceremony were family and friends of the bride/groom who were there to give support to Yasmin as she exchanged vows with no one else but herself.

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40

Read more at: Meet The Bold Lady Who Decided To Marry Herself After Hitting 40 | LATEST NIGERIAN NEWS BREAKING HEADLINES NEWSPAPERS

Man Flees After Woman Demands Too Much Sex

 

We've all been there.
Agence France-Presse reports that a German man in Munich allegedly had to flee to the police after a woman demanded too much sex.
After several amicably agreed upon rolls in the hay, the man reportedly tried to leave the woman's apartment. But she wouldn't let him exit and instead allegedly insisted on more sex. That's when the man ran to the cops for help, according to authorities.

Perhaps the woman in question was unaware of a study reported on by Forbes that found that, while women can, for the most part, never have too much sex, men can.


And the German man might not be alone in his desire for a bit less sex.
Reuters reported on a study that found 12 percent of men aged 16-24 wanted sex less often. It's not a perfect comparison though, since the German man was 43.

Couple Caught Having Sex In Office (NSFW VIDEO)

 

Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house. And don't have sex if you work in a glass office.
That's the lesson a Christchurch, New Zealand couple learned the hard way on Friday night when they left the lights on during their romantic office-based interlude, according to the New Zealand Herald.
Onlookers at a pub across the street shot NSFW video of the erotic encounter, which took place inside the Marsh Ltd insurance firm building.

The Herald reports that the pair filmed in the encounter, who are employees of the firm, did not show up for work this week.
Marsh Ltd chief executive Grant Milne told Stuff that the company was taking the complaint seriously.
"We know who is involved," Milne said.

New Zealand's Privacy Commissioner, John Edwards told Radio New Zealand the pair is unlikely to be able to sue for invasion of privacy.

"There's very little likelihood that [the couple] would have any legal remedy," Edwards said. "The people who were watching, we may criticize them for a lapse of decency in taking advantage of that, but it's unlikely there'd be any legal liability for their action."

It's unclear what action, if any, Marsh Ltd will take against the pair.